The CEO of a retail chain wanted his leadership team to learn how to have tough conversations. Too many issues were being buried, he said. Team members needed to bring their issues to the table and learn how to resolve them. He asked me to design a three-hour team-building workshop.
I began the workshop by asking the team to develop a set of operating principles. Here’s what they came up with:
After they developed these principles, I introduced them to the GROW model of productive conversation (first described by John Whitmore in his book “Coaching for Performance” ). In a nutshell, the GROW model says that productive conversations follow this sequence: first, we need to understand the Goal (both of the current discussion and the long-range goal), then the current Reality, then our Options, and finally what we Will do next and when.
Once the team understood the model, I asked them to practice it on two current, tough issues. The CTO immediately raised an issue that no one was aware of – but that affected the entire organization. Off they went! Then the CFO raised a second issue dealing with financial statements. Again, the discussion was electrifying. In each case the team followed the GROW model. After experiencing these two discussions, the team added three more operating principles:
Afterwards, people raved about the quality of the teamwork. As one person said: “There are a lot of conversations we need to have now!”
Learn the habits of high performing organizations in my new book “The Leadership Equation” which you can preview on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Leadership-Equation-Innovation-Performing-Organizations/dp/1626340889/
LRI’s consulting is designed to achieve real, meaningful change for our clients.