What are the qualities of an inclusive leader? They welcome diverse viewpoints. They treat people respectfully and fairly – and make people feel valued. Perhaps most of all, an inclusive leader is genuinely collaborative in the way in which they approach any task or project.
Here are some of the most important qualities of inclusive leaders, with specific tips.
When it comes down to it, the more you can authentically communicate from a place of humility, the more inclusive a leader you will be.
It begins with genuine humility. An absence of pretense is key to being an inclusive leader. If you can say in a completely authentic way – “I’m not sure what the right path forward is. What do you think?” – the more you will be perceived as inclusive. If you regularly invite input from a diverse array of people with different backgrounds and ideas, you will be perceived as inclusive.
Inclusiveness is also sparked when you are open about your own personal journey. Walt Disney said, “I was fortunate in that I had some big failures early on. They allowed me to learn.” Inclusive leaders share stories about their backgrounds. The more you share your personal journey, the more people will feel free to share their own stories and feel included.
Lastly, let’s not forget the power of humor, especially self-deprecating humor. The more that you can get people to laugh, the more people will feel at ease. Having a sense of humor can help people lower their guards, be more forthcoming, and ultimately feel more included.
Trust is the underlying glue that helps people feel more included. Here are some specific trust-building techniques that will build inclusiveness and belonging.
To be more inclusive, it’s a good idea to trust people as your default mode. An interesting fact is that about 50% of people are willing to trust first, and assume their trust is well-founded until they see evidence that it’s misplaced. The other 50% “distrust until” – they wait until they see evidence that their trust is earned. To create a culture of inclusivity, leaders need to be willing to assume the best in other people until proven otherwise.
Cultural competence means you understand the ways in which your background and culture have shaped your perceptions of the world – and that you appreciate how and why your perceptions may differ from those of other people. It means you consistently demonstrate a curiosity about other people, regardless of their background, and show a genuine interest in learning from them.
One way to build cultural competence is to read and learn about people from different places. Research has shown that people who read fiction are better able to put themselves in another person’s shoes. Another way is to spend time learning other languages – even if it’s just a few phrases – and being able to communicate with people in their native language. Yet another way is to travel and to become immersed in cultures different from your own.
When one acquires cultural competence, it’s visible to those around you in the way you engage openly with people of all types and backgrounds. They experience you as someone who does not make generalizations or judgments about people based on their background. Instead, you appreciate each individual as a human being with their own unique set of experiences and cultural influences.
Inclusive leaders examine their own biases. They reflect on their reactions to people who are of a culture significantly different from their own and work diligently to counter any prejudices or stereotypes that they have. They recognize that the potential sources for unconscious bias include:
We are all subject to unconscious bias, both in ourselves and those around us. Gathering information from a variety of sources, learning how to identify one’s own assumptions, and continually challenging your assumptions can help bring heightened awareness and build inclusivity.
Last but not least, inclusive leaders are committed to creating environments where employees experience and practice inclusiveness every day. Toward that end, they are clear about the norms of behavior that are consistent with inclusiveness and pay attention to and address behavior that is problematic. Here are some “red flags” to watch for:
Inclusive leaders know that building an inclusive culture is a never-ending process of assessment, learning, and growth. They survey people to gain insights into what aspects of inclusiveness are working well – and what could be improved. Below are examples of questions to include in a survey of organizational inclusiveness.
Inclusive leaders celebrate the aspects of inclusiveness that are working well. They facilitate brainstorming sessions to come up with ways to address those areas that remain problematic. Bottom line, they demonstrate a commitment to inclusiveness in everything they say and do – not out of a feeling that it’s something they should do, but out of a deep sense of responsibility for the welfare of every human being in the organization.
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